Intimacy by design
Discover how 3 unique dates will create deeper intimacy and turn your relationships into one that is filled with pleasure and romance.
Intimacy by Design consists of three guided date nights that will help you ignite deeper emotional intimacy and take you step by step to explore what turns you on. After just 3 dates, you will know how to communicate your fantasies, sexual edges and sustainably honor your eroticism both with yourself, your partner or partners. No matter your relationship status, we equip you with a plethora of tools to sustain your erotic self care.
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Intimacy by Design is three guided date nights that will help you ignite deeper emotional intimacy and take you step by step to explore what turns you on.
Intimacy by Design
We understand how you feel. Most relationships follow a very similar pattern. Do any of these sound like you? If so, you are in the right place…
- Things have been luke warm for a while, you're in the same old sexual routine, and you're ready for things to be steaming hot again.
- You feel that the spark is lost in the relationship
- You want to deeply care about each other but don’t know how to spark the excitement into your relationship.
- You feel that you are lacking connection with your partner... You feel like your forcing or pushing your partner to connect and they keep rejecting you
So we decided to find a better way.
- Intimacy by design is about creating fun and connection
- Neither of you are in control but both of you are fully invested in connecting in a deeper way with each other
- A recipe for a fun, spontaneous, connected experience
- A way where you can bring spontaneity back to date nights
- Infuse new relationship energy no matter how long you’ve been together
By the end of these three date nights you will know how to communicate your fantasies, sexual edges and sustainably honor your eroticism both with yourself, your partner or partners. No matter your relationship status, we equip you with a plethora of tools to sustain your erotic self care.
Leah & Jake
"We’re reliving the honeymoon phase all over again. So grateful we did the date nights.”
Kedra & Sean
"Our connection is on fire! We feel more in love today than when we first met 9 years ago."
Amy & Andrew
"Intimacy by Design saved our relationship. We finally got the spark back!"
"We’re reliving the honeymoon phase all over again. So grateful we did the date nights.”
Leah & Jake, participants of intimacy by Design
"Our connection is on fire! We feel more in love today than when we first met 9 years ago."
Kedra & Sean, participants of intimacy by Design
"Intimacy by Design saved our relationship. We finally got the spark back!"
Amy & Andrew, participants of intimacy by Design
Introducing
Intimacy By Design
Intimacy by Design was developed by Communication Intimacy Coaches and Top Rated Sexuality Podcast Hosts Katie, Lindsey and Madison of Clit Talk. Communication is a key factor in the quality of intimacy in your relationships, romantic or not and this includes the relationship with yourself. Great communication results in extraordinary relationships and no communication, bad communication or a lack thereof results in a relationshit. You can have all the sex tips, tools and toys but if you don’t know how to communicate, you’re left with a bunch of great tricks and not necessarily the deep connection you’re truly craving. Communication issues results in many relationships coming to an end. Katie, Lindsey and Madison have created Intimacy by Design to support pleasure seekers in getting to the root of relationships issues… COMMUNICATION. By the end of these date nights, you will be clearly, confidently and joyfully communicating you needs, desires, fantasies and edges with total ease.
Two paths to Choose From
Partnered Date Night Journey
This option is perfect for those already inside of a partnership whether you’re newly dating or in a long-term relationship. It’s designed for 2 (or more) people to discover each-other newly, deepen intimacy inside of their bond and co-align on a desired future together.
Solo Date Night Journey
This option is perfect for those looking to deepen their erotic self care. Those who are interested in discovering themselves newly, to get in touch with their desires, mind, body and soul. You’ll experience exploring sexual edges and learn exactly what and how you like it. And then you can apply that knowledge to either your own personal pleasure practice and/or bring that into your current or future partnerships.
Daniel met the woman of his dreams:
“I haven’t had much success in the dating scene. In fact, none. Just when I thought all hope was lost, I found Intimacy by Design and gave it a try.” After doing the three solo date nights with myself I got crystal clear on the partner I wanted to bring into my life. I went out for dinner with some buddies and literally met the woman of my dreams at the bar. On our third date we did one of the Intimacy by Design date nights together and she loved it! I feel so grateful!”
Paula can now orgasm during sex:
“My partner did not want to do the date nights with me so I did the solo date night path. We’ve been together for 8 years.The first 4 years I had no issues with orgasming during sex. But then life got really hectic. We had some family health issues, things got busy with work and I haven’t been able to cum with my partner in 4 years. All that changed after we did Intimacy by Design. When we focussed on the other aspects of intimacy, I felt closer to my partner and was finally able to relax during sex and have an orgasm finally.”
Meet your Connection Experts
Katie, Lindsey & Madison
Living a pleasure positive lifestyle is our expertise. As Sex & Empowerment Communication Coaches, Intimacy Experts and hosts of the top-rated sexuality podcast, Clit Talk, we help you get better in bed by overcoming shame, exploring your sexuality and communicating more meaningfully around desires.
We really felt the lack of intimacy in our own relationships so decided to create a program for our own relationships and now we’re so excited to share it with you.
Before we started our sexual liberation journey…
We were three best friends each struggling with the sex and intimacy in our relationships.
Katie never enjoyed sex and sex with her husband was something on her to-do list, clear she’d never have a baby, and so focussed on her career taking off…
Lindsey found the love of her life but then hit a wall in their intimacy and could not figure out what was going sideways in their communication.
And Madison was arguing with her husband as if it were World War III, she was so resentful, closeting her sexuality, pretending to be straight.
Fast forward 5 years…
Katie has a thriving sex life with her husband that she actually enjoys, she has a 3 year old and baby number 2 just arrived into the world, and she has officially pursued a career as a Sex Educator, which she was able to do because she’s a registered nurse…
Lindsey and her partner are now engaged! Together, they worked through and reinvented their intimacy after learning that her partner was mildly on the spectrum. Knowledge plus intimacy skills have given them a foundation to create the life they always wanted together.
And Madison came out as queer in her marriage, she and her husband are still married and thriving as a polyamorous couple. And they don’t fight anymore! They’ve both discovered the power of breath work and have infused such practices as well as sex magic into their sex life and their spiritual and sexual intimacy has never been better.
Here's what you'll experience
Three handcrafted date nights to create transcendent intimacy
Date Night 1
Become A Pleasure Researcher & Deepen Emotional Intimacy
On this date night, you will be focusing on deepening emotional intimacy that can open amazing opportunities inside of a partnership.
You will have the opportunity to explore a few of our favorite and profound ways to play inside of intimate spaces. You will get to experience…
- How you can release the day and be fully present to each other in less than 10 minutes
- How to explore physical affection without sex and appreciate the magic of your connection
- How to talk about your fantasies and that will lead to deeper connections out of the bedroom.
Date Night 2
Tapping Into Your Eroticism through your Senses
In Date Night #2 you will explore the world of eroticism; how to access it within yourself, how to gain the confidence to explore your edges, and how to speak the language of eroticism using a specific framework.
- How to unlock and release harmful patterns that are sabotaging your relationship.
- How to unleash you eroticism and create the spark you once had in your relationship
- How to tune your bodies together and create connection without ever saying a word.
- Discover each others true erotic blueprint and start to use them to reignite the spark in your relationship
Date Night 3
Declaring Desires, Fantasies, & Intimacy Manifesto
In Date Night #3, You will get to experience…
- How to use an orgasmic breath technique to keep your pleasure lasting for hours!
- Identify each others core values so you can powerfully ask for your desires
- You will create a Relationship Manifesto that will deepen your commitment to each other.
- Learn a centuries old Tantric practice that will connect both your minds and bodies
Your life after taking this course...
- You and your partner are finally connecting on a deeper level and you are able to tackle all of life’s issues together effortlessly.
- You and your partner are seeing each other in a whole new light.
- You have reignited the passion, trust and attraction with yourself and your partner.
- You can hear each other's needs and desires with love and understanding.
- You feel a whole new level of appreciation for yourself and in your relationship.
- Even when you don’t see eye to eye, you and your partner will be able to resist the urge to start an argument because your respect and appreciation for one another supersedes your need to be right.
Ready to deepen intimacy and reignite turn on in your life?
Choose your payment plan:
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Your Path to Epic Intimacy
1. SIGN UP FOR INTIMACY BY DESIGN
Click the enrollment button and follow the checkout steps. In minutes, you'll get an email with your login details.
2. Dive in and take action
Dive into the content and take action. Can’t start right away? It's okay, you have lifetime access to the course.
3. CREATE DEEP INTIMACY
In your Intimacy by Design Course, you’ll see two paths to choose from. Choose which path speaks to you! Go at your own pace.
Are you ready to start experiencing the deep connection you crave?
The answer is to start placing your attention and awareness on intimacy. These three guided date nights will spark lasting intimacy in all areas: physical, emotional, experiential, and spiritual.
START NOWReal talk,
You deserve the deep connection that true intimacy fosters.
Whether you’re currently singly looking to attract a life partner, you’ve found your person and are newly dating, or you’ve been with your person for years, Intimacy by Design is a program created to support you in meeting you exactly where you are at and providing the foundation to create a relationship that has sustainability.
At the foundation of every radiant relationship is true intimacy. Epic intimacy is a side effect of extraordinary communication. Without communication, you get what we call a relationshit. And we all know how those end…
Here's what's waiting for you on the other side:
- More joy and harmony in your relationship(s) including the one with yourself
- Freedom from finally having these kinds of conversations and experiences
- A new game plan for intimacy by YOUR design in your relationship with yourself, prospect partners, or your long-term partner
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Laura strengthened her bond with her partner:
"My partner and I hadn’t had sex for 6 months prior to the date nights. The date nights helped me and my partner build a deeper bond and our desire for one another is through the roof now."
Jane saved her relationship from the verge of breakup:
"Me and my boyfriend were on the brink of breaking up and after doing the three date nights, we have fallen back in love all over."
Our money-back guarantee
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If after the end of these three dates you feel like you haven’t gotten waaay more value than what you invested, we will happily refund you in full.
